Life Lessons in Trading

It’s not difficult to admit that people usually begin trading because they want to make money. After all, what’s so bad about wanting to multiply your hard-earned wealth? But is trading really all about the money? As many traders have discovered, trading comes with a lot of non-monetary benefits that are probably just as valuable, if not more so, as potential capital gains.

Trading encourages discipline

Contrary to the “Get one million pips in a month” ads we’ve seen, trading is far from easy. Just like professional sports and other high performance careers, trading is a craft that must be honed day in and day out. And just like other professions, trading requires discipline.

Developing discipline requires planning, tons of practice, and turning those planned tasks into habits. In trading, discipline is acquired by taking the time to study the fundamentals and charts, sticking to the trading plan, and even logging in trade journals. Remember that there’s a name for trading without discipline – gambling.

Trading pushes us to go beyond our comfort zone

For most people, risking money is very uncomfortable because after all, nobody wants to lose their hard earned cash. This leads to common uncomfortable trading scenarios such as “cutting winning trades in fear of them turning into losing ones,” or “not cutting losing trades quickly in hopes that it will turn into a winner.” In other words, it’s more comfortable to hold on to losers and cut winners quickly–the exact opposite of what traders are supposed to do!

As the great trading psychologist, Dr. Brett Steenbarger, once said, “Your growth always lies on the other side of your discomfort. Whether it’s in the weight room or career decisions, you’ll never develop yourself by staying in your comfort zone.”

So, whether your goal is to improve your trading profits, get healthy & fit, or maybe even close more clients to become the top performer at your sales job, you’ve got to get focused and push yourself to hold onto winners longer, add on that extra lap in your workout, or connect with your clients more to take your game up to the next level.

Trading teaches us about emotional balance

I’m sure that many of you have gotten burned by overconfidence. You believe that you’re on a roll and that you can’t lose, so you end up taking trades without taking the time for proper analysis. You end up taking dumb trades, or risking way more than you should, and before you know it, your account gets hit with a massive loss.

I’m also sure that more than once, you’ve found yourself paralyzed by the lack of confidence. You spot a great setup that you would normally take, but because you’ve lost your last 5 trades, you decide not to take the trade. And of course, the pair ends up going in your direction and hitting your take profit point. Yikes!

In trading we learn that we can’t get too caught up when we’re winning, nor should we be too hard on ourselves when we’re losing. Eventually, all traders also learn that the best state of mind is one that is both even-tempered and relaxed.

This is true in other aspects of life as well. People make poor decisions when they wear their emotions on their sleeve. They get taken advantage of when they are overconfident, or miss out on good opportunities when they are scared.

As the great Coach Phil Jackson always said, “Never get too high, nor too low.”

Though potential capital gains are hard to ignore in trading, we must remember that it offers so much more than monetary rewards. As the FX-Men and other BabyPips.com bloggers have often preached, you must not merely focus on the bottom line profits and losses, but also focus on HOW you trade, and how you maximize potential life lessons that you could learn from the craft.

  • wirabayu06

    Dr. Brett Steenbarger, once said, “Your growth always lies on the other side of your discomfort
    Phil Jackson always said, “Never get too high, nor too low.”
    Now my condition at the high level of uncomfortable. If i can manage this disadvatage, I will get hugely advantage… But to control that level going to high, i must find how to relax my mind and soul… Of course ur lesson is one of them..

    So.. Thank u Dr. Pipslow.. U’re one of my savior now

  • FedeX

    it´s all about the game.

  • Rasak Koleoso

    I feel better to trade for the love i have for forex and think less of Profits taking because i know if i get to trade much more better the profits will come any way…i want to trade more responsibly    Thanks

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