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Pipsychology Author If you can't keep your emotions in check when trading, you will lose money. Lots of it. Pipsychology was created to help minimze this from happening to you. The most significant action that you can do to improve trading profits is to work on yourself. Really knowing yourself and how you think can give you an edge that others in the market don't have. My goal is to share practical advice to improving your mental side of trading without boring you to death. Hopefully you can develop the mental edge you need to become the best trader you can be.

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Get A Life, Why Don't You

Trading foreign currencies isn’t the easiest business to get involved in, especially for beginners or those with limited trading experience.  Your most successful traders undoubtedly have several years combined experience in the Forex and other financial markets.  Expert traders and those traders that make a living trading the Forex often advocate that beginners take a methodology similar to students beginning an advanced degree program at any one of the different types of professional schools (e.g. vocational, college or university, graduate school).

My time served in the arena of higher education has confirmed that moving ahead in such a program requires some level of commitment to reading, studying, and maybe even attending a study session related to the given field.  To move to the top of that class, however, requires even greater discipline and more time committed to learning the course curriculum.  I gained this “knowledge” strictly by not doing than by doing.  I left the “doing” up to the “smart” kids in class; I won’t lie.  At that time, the level of educational excellence at which those kids were working was higher than what I was willing to work for.  And as you can image, the results at year end were justified.  The smart kids were still smart kids, and I was, well, not.  And I hated them for it.  Funny how that works, huh?

Was I right to hate the “smarties”?  Sure, why not!  They got the good grades!  They had the good hair.!  They studied hard and long.  They gave up evenings and weekends of partying and fun for… the library.  They actually read the homework assignments.  I mean, what’s not to hate?.  They probably attended Harvard or Princeton, and then went on to create a social networking site, which they sold to the highest bidder for billions, only to... let me stop my ranting.

Like school, learning to trade currencies is very similar in the type of commitment required to be successful.  The best and the brightest of the Forex world have put in the time and effort, gaining invaluable skill, and becoming seasoned traders.  Going into school, medical and law students know what’s required to succeed in the program, so limiting their social lives to better focus on developing their skills becomes a necessity.  All efforts are centered on learning about their field, often at the sacrifice of hanging out with peers or living the “normal” life.  The life balance is tipped dramatically in favor of work over play.

But is this balance the only way to become a successful Forex trader (or pediatrician, or nuclear engineer, or angio-radiologic technologist), one who is at the top of their game?  Would you be mad at me if I said “Yes, it’s the ONLY way!”?  One school of thought thinks so..  My thought is that it depends on the level of happiness in your life you want to retain during your educational journey.

Forex trading can be time consuming when you factor in the beginner’s learning curve, strategy creation, demo trading, learning to read, back testing, figuring out how to use your mouse and the list goes on.  The more time you spend learning Forex, the more you are exposed to the workings of the Forex market.  With time you start to build a good skill set for trading, and your experience grows with every trade.  But with time spent learning and trading Forex, time is taken away from something else – your family, your friends, your other job, your toe nails, your dog, your lawn, your social life.  My answer – to each his (or her) own.  There’s no right or wrong answer here, folks. 

Yes, you’re money is on the line (that’s if you’ve taken that big step to trading real money), but that doesn’t necessarily translate into ALL OUT FOREX OPEN 24/7!  The most successful traders will tell you that trading isn’t only about that winning trade, but it’s also about what you learn along the way.  There’s the mental challenge of trading.  There’s the benefit of learning how others make money trading foreign currency.  There’s the excitement of learning new investment strategies.  It’s the process, man, the process!

You can be dedicated to learning and developing your skills as a trader, but a balance must be struck between your trading and the rest of your life.  Stress outside of your trading has a way of finding its way back in.  Stay happy.  Get a life.

Give me your thoughts in the comments section if you have time.  Are you an addict or wish you were (Forex addict, that is)?

Comments (17)

you reap what you sow... even beckham and those super star soccer player put in their hard work. It just that we sees the result and often overlook their sweat and blood behind the scene...
I always enjoy reading your posts. I think you well stated that succesful trading requires both the commitment to learn --and on the other side, one needs to have a life outside of trading that complements trading by providing enjoyment and stress relief. Without that one will burn out in trading if one does not give the mind,body and spirit some other interesting goals. Making money is the only goal of trading -- but the money earned needs to be used for other personal goals.
Great article! I have a lot to learn about trading. I have only started trading live for two weeks! I am learning so much from "Baby Pips"! Keep up the good work! Trading is like anything else in life. If you want to be good, you'll have to put in the time! Thanks!
I like very much your article especially "But with time spent learning and trading Forex, time is taken away from something else" There always something to loss to gain others things. Now, you must take value of gain more than value of loss. If you can take more, dont trade your time.
fxchance is right on point with his remark. I agree 100%. You've got to find value in what you spend your time doing. If you're fine killing your social life now for a possibly reward down the road, more power to you. But pinetree makes a great point as well about the other side of the coin - burnout. Hopefully you can find that balance so you don't sicken yourself of trading.
That was a great article. Here's what has happened in my past. I got addicted to the forex and didn't stop for anything. From the time i got up to the time I went to sleep, it was forex time. I did great for a short while, then came a downfall from the stress that I was taking on from the market. It was literally making me insane. So folks, I'd like to add to his article. It's a very intelligent thing to do to spend the time learning and practicing within Forex, but do NOT, by all means, let it become your life and only your life. When you find that balance, then you will have achieved success in the market. Have a great day everyone and good luck trading.
Addiction is not always a bad thing, Was Einstein addicted to learning ? Did he have some Serious social issues ? maybe, but you are right BALANCE is key..... without it we would all fall flat on our FOREX's....... have a great day everyone....
Well... what is balance? Not too cold and too warm? I rather think the body will adjust itself with time if inbalance offset your wellbeing> Anyway, Pipslow you made the point when saying that it's up each one of us finding the place of values...
Yes study, I love my Technical Analysis books. Unfortunately only senior posters responded. But it would help the credibility of this site if I knew that someone was reading a Technical Analysis classic like John Murphy's Technical Analysis of the Financial Markets or pursuing the super geeky CMT designation from the Market Technician's Association. Its tough to read and scream at the same time when you all want to trade against a strong trend. Love you all Baby Pip dudes, time to become super geeks eh?
im addicted to forex..been trading for 3 years... yep yep and im happy so far, the only thing missing in my life is making good big numbers of $$$, but thats why im studying and practicing and find that oportunity in forex
Okay...another article on the "get a life" topic. We all need to be reminded of that once in awhile. We all know we need balance. This article, however, was banal. I'm sure everyone here felt good after reading it. It was mildly entertaining. And the comments give off that good vibration. But is there anything substantive here? Only marginally. This was digital filler. Doc, we deserve better from you.
I should follow that post up by saying that there are several master traders who spend nearly all of their time trading. In fact, there are very few profitable traders who haven't make tremendous sacrifices in other important areas of their lives. One could argue that, unless you're a hobby trader, you *must* be an addict. You may have made a million pips from your 135' Christensen in the azure waters around Malta, Gibraltar, Sicily and Cyprus, but you were so busy managing that hedged multi-million dollar position that you never noticed the vodka tonic your wife put beside you five days ago...it was your birthday party and everyone had a fabulous time... Okay I exaggerate. But make no mistake. To really succeed in this business, you must be fully committed. If you're not, the ROI for your time melts away like ice cubes in the Mediterranean sun. Before you know it, five years have passed and you're still little more than an amateur (and probably a lot poorer than when you started). Sorry to rain on everyone's parade here. I'll probably get some flames after this, or get banned, but there it is.
Wow, thelonelytrader. You must really be lonely! Heh. Why would you get banned? We appreciate every kind of feedback. Whether it's positive or negative. =D
Hai-Ya!
Thanks Dr
While the "trend is your friend", If you watch the same few pairs all day every day, soon you won't be able to tell the difference between a minute chart and a daily chart. I agree a person has to stand back away from the market once in a while. Over analysis can lead to forcing trades just to trade. Find the middle ground, trade within yourself grasshopper.
Pipslow another nice post. ;o)

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